My best advice is to be yourself—not to overshare but to be yourself. I think you have to be comfortable in your skin and have your own voice—there’s no need to become a model. It’s not only important to be yourself but to be comfortable with the way that you look—that the clothing that you wear isn’t about you, it’s about the person you’re dressed for. So I’d be the only woman at dinner with someone wearing black or pink jeans, or something like that—I don’t do that. I would just make sure to be a “you” girl for sure.
You do sound like a good role model!
I have many friends who don’t want to be celebrities—it’s just about them. But the fact that I do, it feels to me like that’s a sign that these people are in the big leagues. So I want to be a role model for guys who want to be famous. I’d love to help them be successful, to be seen as a role model, and to take the time. That is all that people are asking for—time. Just the time to take the time, to actually see life, and to be out in their neighborhoods, and be a role model to other men and girls.
The biggest part of my job in life is that it’s not about me. It’s about these other people. And I really can’t stand to see anyone like I’d be a role model for if I wasn’t doing it. In other words, I feel this huge pressure to be a role model. And so many times I’m like, “You know, I really don’t want to be that guy.” Like I don’t want to become a famous man. That would be a bad thing for me.
You say you’re not a role model to women, are you really not?
I am not! You know what? It’s not about me. It’s about my life. So I would never stand for anybody saying, “You can’t be a role model or a success when you’re a woman.” There is no excuse. I don’t think that’s right.
Are all the men you know men who are successful for the same reason?
Everybody wants to be successful. Everybody wants to live life in a glamorous way, having all the time of your life. But you can’t spend time. If you don’t have any money, and you live it
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